Director: Catherine Hardwicke
Genre: Drama/
Comedy
Runtime: 112
minutes
Year:
2015
Starring: Drew
Barrymore, Toni Collette, Paddy Considine, Dominic Cooper
Description: The friendship
between two life-long girlfriends, Milly (Toni Collette) and Jess (Drew
Barrymore), is put to the test when one starts a family and the other falls
ill.
Review: Few manage to elicit as many tears as a film in which someone is
diagnosed with cancer and, after a long fight and emotional goodbye, suffers. Think
of “Terms of Endearment”, “My Sister’s Keeper” and “The Fault on Our Stars”. In
“Miss You Already”, we deal with two best friends, one of whom is told of the
dreaded diagnosis early in the film.
The two inseparable friends,
Milly and Jess, have been friends since elementary school. An opening montage
shows us how their friendship started and what they have been up to together.
After this we see Milly visiting her doctor and is told the bad news. She gets
sich from the chemo, needs surgery. While Milly faces this disease and
potentially leaving her husband and children behind, Jess is busy starting a
family of her own and building a life with her husband. For years she was there
for Milly and was part of her life, now she is finally at the point where she
can build those things for herself. Jess is trying to find a balance between
being there for her friend and living her own life, something that isn’t easy.
“Miss You Already” tries to
show the disease process and its impact on relationships in a raw way. Thanks to
Toni Collette’s good acting as Milly, it certainly succeeds. A great moment is
when Milly shows her friend the scars from the mastectomy. It is fully
portrayed and that is quite shocking, but at the same time real as so many women
have experienced that moment. It also tries to paint an honest picture of the
relationship between best friends, who have become dependent on each other. The
men in their lives sometimes seem to take second place, which is well played by
male supporting roles of Dominic Cooper and Paddy Considine.
Less successful is the
unsympathetic side of Milly. In the opening montage, you can see that se used
to lead a free life, be a good mother and a heartthrob with whom Jess had
countless great nights out. But from the
moment of diagnosis and insufferable narcissist emerges, who expects her friend
to constantly drop everything to be there for her. She also cheats on her
husband because he has trouble dealing with her changed body (and the
psychological aspects that go with it) and she is angry at everything and
everyone around her. Pleasant is different and because of this you miss the
connection with Milly. Not unimportant within this genre.
With many of these films you
sometimes have to wipe away the tears or unexpectedly rush through a whole box
of tissues, but that is not the case with “Miss You Already”. There is
certainly an attempt to move the viewer, especially towards the end, but by
that time you feel Milly’s death may have put an end to Jess’ life as a
doormat, especially since Drew Barrymore knows how to portray the character
warmly. Ultimately, this makes it really nothing more than a drama about the
raw effects of getting cancer, without the much-needed heartwarming (and therefore
emotional element) needed to move you.
Rating: 2,5
/ 5